Event # 2 : Mayun
Mayun is a customary ceremony of a Pakistani Wedding and is celebrated at
the bride's house. Usually the bride's friends and close relatives get together
at her house to dance and sing, often accompanied by drum music. Generally, the
bride's family give bangles and sometimes clothes to her friends, depending on
what the family can afford. The evening also usually includes a henna where the
women decorate each others' hands with Henna. The mayun can last up to late
night. The bride usually wears a yellow Shalwar Qameez. Traditionally, Mayun
meant the custom of the bride entering into the state of seclusion eight to
fifteen days before the wedding. She is made free of all the chores and errands
during this time. However, since most women work in present times, Mayun has
been reduced to a single night celebration of singing, dancing and applying
Uptan to the bride. The bride and groom are not allowed to see each other after
the Mayun begins.
The beautification rituals begin during this time, such as the application
of Uptan. Uptan is a paste made from turmeric, sandalwood powder, herbs and
aromatic oils, which groom's mother brings for bride. She blesses bride and
applies “uptan’ to the bride's hands and face. Groom's sister also does the
same, and a thick string called a “gana" ( Bangles made of Flowers) is
tied to the bride’s arm. “Uptan” is applied to the bride's skin each day
leading up to the wedding. It was supposed to encourage a glowing, fresh
complexion for the wedding day.
Uptan Paste |
It is often referred why would groom put uptan, it is because he can look as good as his wife. though people joke about it but its just a custom.
Some Pictures:
Green Bangles |
Used to put some sweets often called mithai, uptan (tumeric paste) |
Bride's yellow dress |
Some decorations |
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